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Why does my cat bite me when I play with it?

If your cat bites you when you play with it, this post will show you why and what you can do about it.

So, why does my cat bite me when I play with it? Possible reasons why your cat bites you when you play with it are that it wants you to stop touching it, it is playing itself, or that it is intimidated.

Your cat might actually bite you, when you play with it, for a number of different reasons and it might do it due to a combination of causes. However, there are some things you can consider when figuring out the main cause and there are some things you can do about it.

Reasons why your cat bites you when you play with it

Below are possible causes and what would make them more likely.

Your cat wants you to stop touching it

The reason why your cat does it could be that it wants you to stop touching it. This would be more likely if it also shows signs of being agitated when it does it such as by flicking its tail, moving away from you, pushing you away, scratching or hissing.

You’re touching it wrong

Another possible reason is that your cat does not like the way that you are touching it and it either wants you to stop touching it or to touch it differently. This would be more likely if your cat does it when you touch it a certain way.

It’s playing

It could also be the case that your cat is actually playing. This would be more likely if it also does things such as grab your hand and roll around and if it does not seem to be showing other negative signs such as scratching, hissing or pulling away.

Your cat feels intimidated

The reason why your cat has been doing it might also be that it feels intimidated. This would be more likely if your cat seems to pull away from you and if it also scratches or hisses. In this case, it could be the case that you are not being gentle enough or you are approaching it too boldly.

Affection

Sometimes, cats will also bite when they are being affectionate. The reason why your cat has been biting you, when you play with it, could actually be that it is showing you affection. This would be more likely to be the cause if it does it when it is showing positive body language such as by purring.

Things to consider about your cat biting you when you play with it

Below are some things to consider to help figure out the main reason why your cat has been doing it.

If your cat always bitten you when you play with it

If your cat did not always bite you, it would help to consider what else happened when your cat first started doing it. It could be the case that something changed that caused your cat to start doing it. If it started doing it suddenly, it might be due to things such as a change in the way that you play with it or because it got an injury.

What is different when your cat does not bite you

If your cat tends to do it more in certain situations, it would also help to consider if there is anything special about the timing. For example, if it only does it when you are play with it a certain way, the cause might be that there is an issue with the way you are playing with it.

What to do about your cat biting you when you play with it

Below are a number of things you can do about the behavior.

Avoid encouraging the behavior

It might be the case that your cat has learned that biting you gets rewards. Instead, it would help to reward it when it does not bite you and to avoid giving it things such as extra attention when it does bite you.

Play with it differently

Another thing to try would be to play with it in a different manner. If you currently touch your cat a lot when playing with it, it might help to play with it without touching it such as by dangling something on a string.

Be gentle

If you have been playing with it forcefully, it would also likely help to try playing with it more gently.